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Not a bad book...actually better than I thought it would be. I just finished this book and it was well eye opening...I think because we know everything they say but we like to pull the wool over our own eyes and pretend, rather than think someone isn't that into us! It was bold and to the point with humor mixed in and I enjoyed it. It helped me understand that these rules should go for friends also, because if you are have mixed feelings about a friend maybe you should read this too, as I got a lot from it about my friendships too. So I got double the dose from it. I think it is a great book for people who just can't get over that guy. And my favorite chapter was on shouldn't I be able to find out why he left me...and it is true if we pursue him it is just saying we are needy and are not strong enough to be on our own. I know I kept asking the same questions as many of the people in the book, but I kept getting the answers I needed but were just to afraid to hear. It is not the Holy Bible but it is common sense that most of us need to know in order to be strong and when the time is right our "Mr. Right" will come along. We all have to learn patience and that not everyone we date will be our future husbands we have to realize some are learning tests.