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Admit It, this book says it all The only people who don't "buy" the concept of this perceptive, funny, smart and realistic book, are those who wish to live in a fantasy. I found this book to be extremely uplifting and liberating, mostly because it articulated all the things I already knew but never wanted to believe. Maybe the basic idea of the book could have been summed up in fewer pages, but the specific scenarios the author addresses are what makes this book so applicable to so many women. Maybe life isn't as simplistic and black-and-white as the title concept would have one think, but the fact is, men ARE black and white. They are simple creatures when it comes to love, women, and sex, and we can't deny the biological facts that this books bases itself on. Maybe it shouldn't be that way, but it is---men are the chasers, it's what they have always done, and what they will continue to do if they really like a woman. And a note to all those who say that we women should be able to "go after" men and be "active and not passive" just like in our careers---I have a news flash for you: Relationships and Careers are NOT THE SAME THING. Having a successful relationship is not the same thing as getting a promotion or landing a new job. This book acknowledges that maybe its advice sounds antiquated or unfair, but it's also reality. I highly recommend this book to any woman, whether she's single, dating, married or divorced--it will definitely help you if you let it!