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Reality bites, but its necessary I know the problem that a lot of women have with this book. They say the book is too geared towards the male ego. But I believe that this book does something that is incredibly hard for any friend to do: be brutally honest. We have all been in the situations where a friend comes to us begging us for advice about her love life. We really want to tell her the truth. That the guy is not worth it and just not that into her, but its hard to do. How can you tell such an amazing woman this worthless male is simply not that interested in you? So often we do the opposite. We tell her to wait and see. He'll come around. The best thing about this book is that it says screw waiting find someone else. The greatest point the book makes is that you are too wonderful to wait around for some guy to get a clue while there is a great guy out there who would be great for you. Its all about not wasting time. However, I would not recommend reading this book when you are in a REALLY bad mood because it can be depressing, but hearing this kind of advice is necessary. I am certainly the type of person who likes to live in denial. Denial is a nice place to be but IT IS NOT REALITY. This book is like a wakeup call or metaphorically speaking it makes you just pull off the bandaid really really fast. Sure it hurts, but why slowly torture yourself?